God why do u hate me

His love for us does not depend on our love for him. The Psalms remind us:. As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us. As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; for he knows how we are formed, he remembers that we are dust. Neither does it depend on whether we are fit and well or struggling or sick, on whether we are fat or thin, tall or short, young or old, nor on the color of our skin, our job, financial position or our family.

Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous man, though for a good man someone might possibly dare to die. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us.

I know that this is hard to understand. My parents divorced when I was 8 years old. My sister died when she was 29, leaving two small children. One of my brothers was killed in a car accident 12 years ago. My father and one of my brothers were both alcoholics, my father dying at 58 as a result, while both spent time in prison. My own business collapsed and it took ten years to pay off the debts. And as a result of doctrinal changes in our church I lost close friends of many years standing.

So I have some understanding of what the writer felt during this troubled period of her life. Just as he does you. There are no quick and easy answers in times of severe trial and difficulty. Sometimes we have to endure through the pain. In fact, we rarely do. Life is seldom fair, and, as Elijah had to learn, walking with God does not put you in an insulated bubble and guarantee you freedom from trials and problems, not even from the private hell of depression. With God on our side like this, how can we lose?

As simple as it can be. God is good and the Devil is bad. Faith is a choice to believe. Make a choice to believe in what you want in life. Start to speak it to yourself. As I speak to you I speak to myself. Our words are powerful. Call yourself a winner. Stand up and fight for yourself. Be careful with your thoughts and the words out of your mouth.

What you think, and what you speak is what your going to get. This is how we fight the Devil with positive thoughts and positive words found in the Bible. How convenient. What sense does that make. God is all powerful. But it is the fault of one of his creations? Where do I sign up? How about realizing that God and Satan are two cheeks of the same arsehole? What, you think he contracted out the building and running of Hell to someone else?

But he creates good and evil, by his own words. OK I would have to say God hate us. If an infinite God can do anything created everything down to subatomic particles, stars, black holes and even the notion of time, dimension even the notion of good versus evil would not exist without his bidding.

He made it like this. We are just toys that got thrown away after the funs been had…. Just look at his kingdom description in revelation, the one about his throne in heaven not the one on earth. After all we are made in his image so we naturally crave deityhood.

It just comes off to me as a universal case of do-as-i-say-not-as-i-do type of thing. Prince S. I have a couple major projects going on and need good people! God is very mean. You are 22!! Have you actually read the Bible — the entire way through? And it is easy when you stop blaming God for all the problems other humans create. Do you know anything about attraction? God gave people physical desires and each person is unique in that way.

Frankly I find it insulting that when people who are dying of cancer of suffering of starvation and poverty and they still have faith, you are whining about a girl not liking you back. I personally am agnostic but I was raised in a very religious household and my dad is a pastor.

I have read the Bible many times over. I was homeless as a teen and have had to starve at times. I stopped believing in God because scientifically there is no proof.

I am not an atheist because I cannot prove that there is no God. So I am agnostic. You have your entire life ahead of you. Did you ever think that God has other plans for you? Maybe they are better than you could possibly imagine!

Maybe you will meet someone you care for ten thousand times more! Also, read the bible. There are many more girls. Work on improving YOU. Get a good education so you can have a good job in our modern economy.

What do you want to be? Maybe you want to be a truck driver, or a plumber, or a carpenter, or a writer, or painter, or photographer, or a teacher, lawyer, computer programmer, or anything else. But with women come threats to the wealth you will gain, so be cautious; women have ruined many men financially; many women are good, but you must be careful.

I wonder how many of the stories on this page about the misery people are living through, are caused by poor choices those people made, and how many of those people are willing to admit at least to themselves , that they are responsible for their own misery. Scott Peck. One of the most powerful pages ever written on the face of this earth. That page is pure truth. I wish that for just one day you could stand inside their shoes and for just that one moment they could be you!

You two are like a farmer who expected that God should sow his grain for him. If the farmer should not plow, not sow, and not reap, should he then curse God that he is hungry? And what of the martyrs that faced torture and death but maintained their faith in God? Did they accuse God of being mean or of tantalizing them? Spare me the myth of the talking snake and eating an apple.

Yeah, well men are crazy and the sure can be a detriment to a woman. If all of your experiences with women are bad, than the problem lies with you, quit picking bad women, problem solved. Why is Adam always seen as a victim? He also chose to sin. He could have held out and God would have given him another wife. He blew it, too. The martyrs should have accused God of being mean.

He is mean. Those people suffered and died for an all-powerful God who could have stopped it at any moment. What a jerk. But there is also the farmer who has his crop wiped out by pestilence or drought. Or fire. Or flood. Children born blind, disabled, etc. People plagued by cancer. He just seems really mean. Jesus said he was coming soon. God only loves and does for who he wants. People worship him and he spits in their face daily. Ask the children who are repeatedly raped.

Ask people who beg God for some relief and he does nothing. But yet child molesters, dope dealers and rapists get whatever they want. But a five year old little girl can beg God to stop being raped and he does nothing. Oh, ya, but God loves you! I so relate to the comments. I am turning 51 in a few days and the only deep desire I have had Is to marry and have a child.

I have prayed my whole life for this. I have tried my best to be obedient to God and serve him. We are suppose to trust that His plan for us is the best one. Then I look at my sister who is not a Christian and has a wonderful husband and two beautiful children. Please explain about this loving God?? As we can see, nobody has the answers to our pain and torture. The bottom line is if you love somebody, you show it.

People I love never have to question my love. We Deserve a answer from our father as to his silence to our cries.

Answers like why do you give us 60 years to get it right but satan gets a planet to rule , rape, and ruin our lives, with us under his whip for thousands of years? Havnt humanity suffered enough?

Guess not. I just wish he would explain this to us not as a god but as a father,but good luck with that. Put infinite power into the hands of an ordinary person and bad things will happen.

What is the saying? Power corrupts. Absolute power corrupts absolutely. He projects a public persona that is loving and wonderful. I think most of the horrors of our lives is just for his entertainment. Have you tried finding the amazing lady you want to marry. Sometimes God wants us to wait to be blessed sometimes he wants us to work to be blessed.

I love God with all my heart. I want Him to be in my life but he keeps failing me. I trust only on him but does He even foe once think of me? I pray, i fast, i am born again but God hates me and want to dissapoint me everytime. I read His word n believe in it but nothing written there ever works for me. It is hard for me coz all my hope, trust n faith i put in Him but i guess he feel happy seeing me suffer. Why should i suffer if Jesus died for me? God may laugh at the Wicked , not you.

If you are keeping his word. You will be blessed do not only think about this life. Unfortunately evil exists not Just Jehovah.. This is a sad case where misery does not love company, because it. Yet, I too firmly believe the more I pray, the worse things become in my life. I too wonder where the loving God is. I abused myself as a result of these experiences. I ask God to take me home ever day and know one day I will simply end it.

I even had therapists abandon me. I have lived in housing that triggered my symptoms and my dreams are gone. I am middle aged now and have never had a bf. I do pray for others as I am able but I am tired of everything.

I take responsibility for my own errors but anyone who knows the pain of incest knows how it can devastate your life. I look at what others have and at the daily struggle I cover up and am sick of it all.

Churches I found to be judgmental places. I have zero hope for my life. God destroyed it all and let satan torture me and I hate Christianity and its promises. Good luck to all those suffering we all need it. Some people may not understand but I do , I actually get it. I hope you receive All your blessings. So many similar to what I am feeling and going through.

No matter how I try to get away. I have been ill most of my life. My youth was stolen from me. I have been homeless. I have been poor my entire life, regardless of how hard I work. I even went to jail because I tried to defend myself when he was in an alcohol and drug fueled rage. I have been made fun of and laughed at. I have never felt love or security in my life. Now I have just recently been diagnosed with a brain tumor.

I just had to let God go. The more I pray, the worse it gets. Nothing good has ever happened to me. Even the smallest of tasks are difficult. All hope is lost, and no one can help. Even knowing you all are suffering too, I am still alone. Talk to me , I understand completely..

But God honestly does love us. Try thanking God different ways. Have a blessed day. About every other day now I think dead is better. That in spite of the horrors of our world, after life people will be happy with God?

Which is it? But God never taught us to destroy deserts or not use them to our benefits, it is humans who decided to exclude ugly creations out of their world when in practice, ugliness can be more useful than beauty.

Reading through all these comments is heartbreaking, and I searched this for the same reason as everyone else — suffering. Praying and hoping for something to change, a lifetime of sadness and people who are cruel and unjust. I was thinking while reading this, some people do have an advantage, but, what if the point is to start to live our lives for other people. What if the way out is thinking about what we can do for other people and what WE can do for God, instead of only what he can do for us?

It is supposed to be a relationship. Seems pretty one sided if we want to take from him but never give. He wants love too. There are things he wants accomplished on this earth just like we want things in our lives. We are supposed to be his servants. What if all the people in this world who were alone, depressed, abused, etc….

If you ask God what you can do for him, the answer is almost always to help others. Especially in these days. Loving YOU? Who is responsible to do this? We all are, even us who are suffering. Should we be upset that others are happy? I was just thinking, maybe, part of being blessed by the Lord, starts with blessing others. You could be the answer to another persons prayers, and in doing so, gain more joy in your own life. I understand so many of us struggle with being shy, being afraid because we have been hurt and betrayed so many times, feeling uncomfortable around new people etc… I have this problem too.

I am now at the point where I have no friends and no family but one child. I finally walked away from the last few people I had, because they are so toxic and abusive. I want to be around healthy, kind, loving people who love the Lord and try to behave how he says to. Not people who project, manipulate, are full of rage. I am afraid to try to meet people though, I am shy and a lifetime of emotional, psychological and verbal abuse has beat me down and taken my confidence. The Lord will start to give it back to you.

I am still to afraid to go out and meet people, but, I know I can ask the Lord all day to magically give me friends, but what I need to ask him for is confidence and courage.

I think the Lord blesses this attitude. I am going to try it. I also believe that he allows trials and they either strengthen us and improve our character, or they can destroy us. Think of it this way — the devil wants your trials to destroy you and cause you to turn away from God, and from truth, and God wants you to overcome, seek him and gain eternal rewards.

Who do you want to side with? The one who loves you and is rooting for you to win, or the one who hates you and is rooting for you to fail? God bless you all. If I could meet or be with any of you, I would be your friend, and I love you. May the Lord bless and protect all who read this. Through all my life of suffering, I am currently suffering the most I ever have, and it is easier than in the past because, this time I realized to ask the Lord regularly for these things: strength, endurance, peace, joy, patience, faith, love, hope, understanding and wisdom.

You can ask the Lord for a job, money, a spouse, friends, etc…. You will get sad again, and the pain will return, but it will be less often, and more bearable. Please try asking him for those things, daily. Please search out people who need someone to encourage them.

I wish more people did that, and then maybe I would have at least one person I could count on in addition to Jesus. I am going to seek first the kingdom of heaven, and trust that then all those things will be added to me.

If you made it this far and think, hum, she may have a point, then also please pray and seek more truth, because the time is coming for the final days. My life actually became so terrible because I had dreams from the Lord about the last days, and when I tried to share with the people I know, they became enraged. You have seen this irrational hatred in the Bible. It is here now too. Maybe it is the devil who hates you, not God.

Not maybe, it is. He wants to keep you from God, heaven, rewards, blessing others. God bless you! This was awesome and I really needed this right now. I thank Jesus for placing these words in you to share with us…because they really and truly spoke to me.

I also pray that everything gets better for you and you can overcome your fears and insecurities. Keep on pushing, praying, believing, and putting your faith in the Almighty Father.

Again thank you for these words. There is no Satan, Neither is their god ,that is the truth. Ruthless People Win ,Emotional People loose, serving others will not get you god ,it will get you a terrible death Like the one my mother got. I just read your inspiring, very helpful comments. I would love to be an encourage to you ellen. Why did god make me a boy?

Or why did he give me this personality to crave it? Who knows. I prayed everyday but still nothing. He likes seeing me suffer I guess. Being ugly is the most hurtful thing on earth. It leaves you wondering why God created you. It hurts. And God doesnt answer ur prayers if you are ugly. It is just too very bad that most of the women of today are Nothing at all like the women in the old days were since it was definitely very easy meeting a good woman back then with No Trouble at all. Women today unfortunately have certainly Changed since then which is very sad.

Interesting that this article mentions homosexuality as a reason why people think God hates them, and then has the audacity to say that the reason for this is human cruelty. It sounds like people are blaming God for everything just because he is the creator.

Jesus Christ was perfect and held up the sins of the world before he did making him a man of sin who never sinned. Faith without works is dead. He might just be waiting on ME and his hand will follow once I start.

Look at yourselves. The enemy feeds off us turning away fRom god. Hell was never for us. As much as I can hate myself or ask him why I can never deny my father.

Our wants and what we need are different and god knows what we need. You have no clue at all what people are doing or not doing. God has left me in the dessert. No one wants me after I lost my job of 14 years. God is not with me on these interviews He loves to watch me fail. He laughs at me. He must get a kick out of seeing my time wasted. I have forgiven my enemies. That is what Jesus wants me to do. But where is God now? God hates me a lot. I had 9 back surgeries, both hips replaced, a knee replaced, several shoulder operations and a total shoulder replacement.

I also had two heart attacks. I was a Shipping worker for Company X, and I gave that place 20 years of impeccable service, starting there when I was 18 years old.

I lost that, along with 20 years of service. This caused permanent, irreversible spinal nerve damage to develop and make me disabled for the rest of my life. I was terminated from Company X and put on Disability. I filed a workers compensation lawsuit against Company X because I fell off the dock and tore two discs in my lumbar spine.

My attorneys dragged my case out ten years, hoping I would suffer a third heart attack and die. God was letting all these things being done to me, one after another for all these years. Yes, God hates me with a passion. He blessed my crooked doctors, and he blessed my crooked attorneys who were paid off.

This is how I was screwed by even my attorneys, and God let it all happen. God could have kept these people honest and get me a decent settlement.

Better yet, God could have kept the first back surgeon I saw honest and operate on me before permanent spinal nerve damage developed. But, because these surgeons were paid off, they lied and they all fluffed me off, dragging my situation out for almost a year before I finally had surgery. But, it was too late and the nerve damage became permanent. None of this had to happen, if God loved me, but He hates me!!!

At age 7, I can remember fighting angels at night. Just like Jacob. I woke each morning in a sweat. I was exhausted. My life was hard every day and school was an awful experience of fights and rejection. I was rejected by my father who beat me and my family rejected me as well. The only exception was my grandmother who taught me the value of never giving up and the love of food. I became a chef and stayed in kitchens until I was 40 years old. My days were filled with unending work. I knew God placed every roadblock imaginable in front of me.

No promotions. No relief from financial burden. No relief from a sick marriage. No acceptance from my family and no friends. No amount of college or hard work took the 10 ton Rick off my shoulders. I talked to God and frankly I heard his voice. I am not delusional. I asked for relief and God said no.

I am not kidding. Then when I turned 56 things suddenly changed in a period of one week. The 10 ton rock was gone and God said to me that I have had enough pain and God told me I was humble enough to be free.

He gave me several talents but also told me that I was not special. God did not give me any more explanation than that. So, 50 years of suffering was what God gave me. I feel a certain sense of peace each day. He evaluates and sets us free for reasons or no reasons. No one ever prepared me for what God really is. God is not a good God. He is like us but has tremendous power. He can multitask and attend to all living beings. God is without religion. He applies pain and relief to all as he sees fit.

God hates humans. We r created in his image so he must be uglier than sin. But he does because he is evil. Your book of short stories tells you that. God is good and evil the story says but it is wrong. He is so EVIL. He is also a liar. Did anyone die???? Because god is a lying! Your life story is interesting. Some truth and some lies.

It does make sense that hard things in life are like a purification process. Like gold and fire. Ron says all things work for our good. The process and outcome work for your good. You are in the hand of God.

No one is going to take you out. What do you want to change in your life? Speak to your Mountain and command it to be cast into the sea. Leave your emotions out. Walk in faith and not by site. What you say is what you get. Guard your mouth. Be positive all the time. Keep putting yourself, your life, and all situations in Gods hands. He will work it all out for you. Your a winner. I also feel the same pain that you guys are going through.

Throughout my life I have never experienced happiness, raised in poverty and sometimes hardly nothing to eat in a day bt I believed everything was to change when I grew up. I came to realise that God has his special people that were well created of whom he has eliminated sufferings and to others like me suffering is the main topic of each day…. I ve reached a point where my heart cannot take it anymore and I ask him to relieve me from all this and take me away but instead he makes each day for me unbearable to live.

Ask him daily for a break through, funny i was reading the comments made by many people, and i thought about how difficult things are in Africa for many people ,black people, especially some arab people also ,i attend an African church in the U. He reached out to the pastor who had invested in his life years earlier in hopes that maybe that pastor might still care enough to help him out somehow. What would have happened if I had focused on the theology and insisted from the beginning that God actually loves Jason?

So often we read articles that set Millennials up as enemies who are hostile to the church. Or we may see articles about how the church has driven Millennials away because of its refusal to change and its judgmental nature toward outsiders. Sometimes I wonder what would happen if we dialed back the rhetoric and became engaging, loving people practicing radical hospitality and grace toward young people who really do need and want older mentors in their lives.

Though we would never say it, we often act as if winning a debate is more important than winning a heart.

For Millennials, the way to Christ is through relationships with trustworthy people who care enough about them to set aside the arguments and just get to know them. What does that look like on a practical level?